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Everyone has been talking about how parents should behave in front of their children to teach them the basic and important values in life. But one thing we cannot deny is that our parents have lived in a completely different reality from today. At least one of our parents has made sacrifice the center of their lives, in most cases, it's the mothers.
Equality is an important factor for all of us today. But the sad reality is that some of our parents have never seen it. So that's the reality for them. We, as their children get irritated when they behave that way without realizing that, that's their way of thinking because they were brought up like that. I know most parents use aggression as a means of imposing what they saw in their children and now think is the right thing.
So, today let us try to imbibe certain points that will help us create a win-win situation for both our parents as well as us.
No one can deny that nothing feels worst than the guilt of behaving badly with our parents.
Let's get to the point now :)
BE POLITE
Most of us have forgotten to speak politely to our parents when they're doing something that we don't feel is right. I believe talking politely will not only solve the problem faster but also contribute in a lot of ways such as the environment of the house will be peaceful, your parents will be happy, you are not guilt-ridden or full of negativity, and list goes on. Work on talking nicely to your parents. It will take you a long way.
SHARE EQUALLY
I am sure you've come across a situation when there was a good food item in the house and it wasn't shared equally. The smallest share went to the sacrificing parent. Parents give up the last piece of cake when they see that their child wants it. But since you've grown up enough now - get up and divide that cake equally. Your parents will be both happy and proud.
BE PATIENT
Patience can win any parent's heart. Not to forget we are growing and so are our parents. They provided us with so much time and patience when we talking the most bizarre and unnecessary things when we were little, now it is our time to pay them back with time, patience, and support.
CONTRIBUTE IN THE HOUSE
In most households, girls are encouraged to learn cleaning and cooking from a very young age, which is not the case with boys. So, if you're a boy who believes in equality at home, then contribute as much as your sibling. Make the other feel that his/ her efforts aren't being used by you or your prarents. I know you will feel lazy to start but trust me, the happiness of your sibling will be worth it. Do give this a try.
These were few points that will make your parents feel like an equal and realize your needs of it too. If these points are followed, the environment at home will improve magically. Everyone at home will be happier and at peace. I promise things will change for better.
Hope this helps, let me know your views in the comment section!!
Thank you
HAPPY LIVING 💓
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